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Saturday, September 12, 2009

Mean?

The guy on chat said. But you seem so nice. I don't understand, I thought all dominants were mean?

Why would I need to be mean?

It has in my experience become abundantly clear those who have figured out they want to offer themselves in a submissive way will come to you willingly. And while many are shy and unsure so you have to make yourself available and may have to encourage them to reach out to you. Speaking gently is so much more effective than the game of calling names and being bitchy. It just isn't me to be mean. Strict... yes, if the situation calls for it. Stern... yes, if the scene needs that intensity. Sadistic... yes, if the one I am sharing with craves the endurance of the pain. But mean, just to be mean. Nope, not me.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

As a dominant (do you use the term Domme?) you give your submissive what he or she craves. The true cruelty would be in withholding. ;-)

acker said...

You are so deliciously un-mean :D
I always have a good feeling after talking, hearing, playing with you. That does not mean that I've never been in pain. Oh no... But you are lovely even when causing pain and denying pleasure ;)

Walter H. Schulze III said...

mean, no. Loving, caring, fun. Firm, strict, unbending. Intelligent, superior, worthy.

I would use any of those to describe my wife, but not mean.

bdenied said...

nah your a sweety for sure....with a stinger but a sweety

Anonymous said...

Not mean. You are the only dom I could even imagine opening myself up to. You are the opposite of mean, very generous.

73 et al.

Unknown said...

The more you shall honor Me,
the more I shall bless you.
-the Infant Jesus of Prague
(<- Czech Republic, next to Russia)

trustNjesus ALWAYS, dear,
and wiseabove to Seventh-Heaven...
cuzz the only other realm aint too cool.
God bless your indelible soul.

Unknown said...

Sweetheart...
1-outta-1 bites-the-dust;
1-outta-1 must face Divine Judgement;
1-outta-1 goes to either eternal
joy or they're damned based on what WE
sinfull mortals did in our wee lives.
I dont wanna be damned.
I'd rather die first
N be a martyr than be damned
for this NTHN of a lifetime.

C'mon, toots.
Show you gott d'BAWLS, kapiche?
Leeeve this sinfull planet
that only drags you down to Hell.
And, yes, what you're doing NOW will.

CHOOSE life or death.
Chop, chop, cooky.
Dont gotta lotta time
before you're split in 2.

Unknown said...

Sweetheart...
1-outta-1 bites-the-dust;
1-outta-1 must face Divine Judgement;
1-outta-1 goes to either eternal
joy or they're damned based on what WE
sinfull mortals did in our wee lives.
I dont wanna be damned.
I'd rather die first
N be a martyr than be damned
for this NTHN of a lifetime.

C'mon, toots.
Show you gott d'BAWLS, kapiche?
Leeeve this sinfull planet
that only drags you down to Hell.
And, yes, what you're doing NOW will.

CHOOSE life or death.
Chop, chop, cooky.
Dont gotta lotta time
before you're split in 2.